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Monday, 13 November 2017

What Does "Advanced" Mean To You?



What does “advanced” mean to you when you apply this word for your child?

If you have hunger and you find no one is in home and no food is available in kitchen and freeze, then you will surely arrange the food somehow…if you are really hungry…you will cook something, for the time being lets guess, you even don’t know how to prepare tea or how to boil egg then what will you do?...the obvious thing is…you will go to market and will buy some food, again for the time being lets think…you don’t have money in this situation then what will you do? …obviously you will visit your relative’s house or a friend’s house or will ask your neighbor for some food for the time being…if you are really hungry.


It is very much similar to…”where there is a will there must be a way”…you will surely find out a way if you really have thirst/desire.


When people say…“I have given her/him an android set, she/he reads from there, she is a student of science, she needs it” or something similar to this, it really makes me surprised, these are the parents who will later blame their child for not carrying good marks in exams.


Few days ago someone asked for my suggestion…my daughter is in class eleven and she is asking for an android set, she says it will be helpful for her in study, should I give her?”


When I suggested not making such a blunder mistake he replied
…you are right, the teachers of my colony has suggested me the same.”


After hearing from him when I was thinking about this issue the first thing that knocked into my mind is…if you have real hunger you will surely find a way out to get some food…I have already explained it above.


Some parents hand over an android phone to their children being trapped by their children’s tricky words…”it will help me in study”
If a student has real hunger for knowledge or study then she/he will surely manage the books whether from library or will borrow from their friends and teachers, before handing over an android set every parent should check…how many times their child has visited the library, how many times they have seen their child to borrow books from friends/teachers and other closed persons? And if they finally come to know that their child has never spent lots of times reading books then handing over an android set means destructing your child’s future.


On the other hand some parents’ “show off’ nature is responsible for this…they wanna describe their child as “advanced”...Read More